...or is he in some degree of open / polyamorous relationship? I've known numerous people that are in such relationships. Some have '...and I want know everything about it' rules (compersion and all that), and some have '...and I don't want to know anything about it' rules (which [potentially] allows them to turn off the misgivings detailed in the last paragraph). Regardless, once the 'I'm in a relationship' cat is out of the bag, unless it's wearing an 'and they have consented to me sleeping with other people' collar, it's game over.

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Psychology graduate with interests in values and morality, cognition and executive function, and High Functioning Depression. Kiwi living in London, UK.

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Alan Duval, MBPsS

Alan Duval, MBPsS

Psychology graduate with interests in values and morality, cognition and executive function, and High Functioning Depression. Kiwi living in London, UK.

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